And so it is!

I'm sitting here like a log with this weird contentment but having a little anxiety. I am drum roll please.... 39.5 weeks! Yep I pretty much made it full term. After all of that! The fears, tears, and prayers I'm pretty much full term. Life is silly isn't? Looking back at that scary moment I literally only had faith to hold onto. We were extremely blessed with outpouring love, support,food haha and prayers. I could never repay the people who took time out of their busy schedules to say a prayer, or check on us or make dinner for us. We are blessed and I'm so thankful this boy decided to stay in. I am feeling contentment because honestly I love my life. I have such a good life with amazing people in it and I'm nervous for it all to change. 
Not only that but I have a husband that I swear was made for me. This boy has stolen my heart  over and over again these past 9 months. He has been the most perfect husband. He spoils me by taking care of me like he gets paid to do it. Parker does anything and everything and then some. I'm very blessed with a very thoughtful husband. 
I selfishly do not want to share him. I'm so content with just us. But I know this has to eventually change. I know our bond is only going to get stronger. Plus,holy cow he is going to be the cutest daddy! He is soooo excited and I'm so glad I can make a lifetime dream of his come true. I wouldn't want to go on this adventure with anyone else. 
I'm anxious because it could be any day and our lives are going to change for ever! It's such a weird feeling to know that this week we could possibly be parents. I swear I'm still nineteen. But I'm not this picture was when I was nineteen hahaha We look so young! 
 Speaking of which I saw a board on this app that said, "For young moms" I was like oh cool I will join. I start seeing the age group and it was 17-23! Oh haha I guess I'm not as super young as I thought.
Regardless I'm excited, nervous, content and ready for this new chapter! And so it is... 

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